The Turning Point: Choosing to See Yourself Again
Dec 31, 2025We tend to imagine turning points as dramatic moments—big decisions, major revelations, life-altering conversations. But for Dr. Sylvia Nemmers, the turning point came in a quiet, internal question: Can I sit with myself long enough to know who I really am?
After leaving an abusive marriage, Sylvia moved into a small apartment by the ocean. For the first time in years, she didn’t have to perform strength or weakness for anyone else. The silence was disorienting at first, but it became fertile ground for healing. Solitude wasn’t loneliness; it was discovery.
When she decided to train with a guide dog, it wasn’t simply an accessibility decision. It was a symbolic return to visibility. A shift from “don’t act blind” to “I’m not hiding anymore.” Learning to trust the dog again required her to trust herself—to believe she deserved confidence, safety, and autonomy.
Leaders often rush past these internal inflection points. But Sylvia’s story reminds us that identity work is leadership work. You cannot guide others if you’ve abandoned yourself. You cannot model courage if you never make peace with vulnerability.
Weekly practice: Choose one moment this week to sit with yourself without distraction—no phone, no noise, no agenda. Ask: What part of me have I been avoiding, and what would it take to welcome it back?
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